Well, I could not comment much..
because I don't really have a real one..
But in my own opinion, its depends on the person..
if a person have one, its okay, as long as they kept their relationship in appropriate ways
but if something bad happened in between then, it could affect both persons.
neither the guy nor the girl..
Do I have one?? Haha.. there have been a lot gossips around..
All around my coursemates and collegemates..
As I'd been the one gossipboy who had made a lot of these gossips myself..haha
Well, in the end, me myself also been getting these gossips from them too..lol
but its okay, I don't care what people say..
at least I could get some feedback from others about me..
maybe the people who been gossiped with me is really like me and she'd been my crush..
Well, it could be good then..haha
Okay, to be honest.. I'm still Single and available..hehe..
I'd been friends with a lot of people lately.. i mean a lot of best friends maybe..
either in the real world or even in the virtual world of facebook and twitter..
But so far, there are only best friends, but in the future, I don't know..
Well, everyone has crush.. me too maybe..
But I won't tell you, its my secret :P
Back to my opinion about this..
if both sides really have a crush between them, then just move on..
I mean, keep your relationship close and don't do something stupid..
Its okay if you don't feel it to be a burden to have one..
Just keep in mind that one day, you want to marry her/him..
so, just follow the flow and be happy in the relationship..
If you think these love life in university is a disturbance..
its okay, there is a long way to go..
you could have your life in your workplace later on..
as long as you don't get jealous if your friends had relationships with others, its okay then..haha
just enjoy the university life with your friends, even you don't want to fall in love with them..
believe me, in university is the place for you to mix around..
Well.. who cares about love as long as we can be happy hanging out with them.
Last situation, you are not in a relationship yet..but you wanted to have one..
and you realize that you'd a crush to someone.. and you felt too shy to admit to him/her
Well, in that case, i think you just keep befriends with him/her
knowing them more deeply, trying to learn if he/she already have someone special..
if no, them you can show some signals and look and wait for their signals too..
if you know what i mean.. haha
Maybe one day, you will be brave enough to admit to him/her..
Yeah, maybe.. just maybe..
Keep on praying for Allah helps..
if he/she really is your fated mate.. then Allah will keep that love feeling in your heart..
However, if you are face a rejection.. keep cool though..
maybe, Allah trying to teach us something valuable lesson of life..
There are a lot of other boys/girls that could be your 2nd, 3rd..and infinity-th crushes..haha
Love love love.. its cool to have someone special..
but don't forget to spend some time with your same-gender-friends too..
because these guys could bring different joy to yourself too..
as I felt myself, this joy when we play futsal, swimming together..
Wow.. i felt very overjoyed,
these friends are usually could be easier to understand..
As Harith Iskandar said "We man don't understand women" haha..
but to be exact, its true.. so sometimes, its better to be friends with the same gender..
But that doesn't mean that you should not be good with all your friends, boys and girls..
but maybe it is more comfortable to have a talk and jokes with them
as they are not easily offended with these jokes or gossips sometimes..haha
Okay..how about me..
Well.. I'd my own plans..my own timeline..and of course, my own crushes..
well university life is long, with a lot of things to be faced on too like studies and activities..
For me 3 years relationship before marriage is too long to hold on..
So, maybe.. just maybe.. I would like to have one..during my 2nd or 3rd year maybe..
if i could have one..haha..well let my 1st year be a Single and happy year..
but that doesn't mean I would not have one anytime soon..we'll see..hehe
So for now, I just want to make everyone happy.. no one feel offended to me..
Just being good.. and maybe more people will like me.. so I could have wider choice to choose from..hehe
Just pray for my happiness future..
And hope you could live a happy life too..
Good Luck!! :)
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